Quick rant

Nicki: “No sex is unhealthy for the mind, body and soul.”

That annoys me.  If she means to include masturbation, then ok, I’d agree, but the context suggests that she means partner sex.  I hate it when people suggest that there’s something wrong with you if you don’t have sex for a while – I think that’s a cultural thing.  Sometimes we just don’t want to have sex.  I’d much rather be celibate for a few years than have sex with someone I don’t trust or know well.


About Avory

Avory Faucette is a queer feminist activist, writer, and public speaker. Zie graduated from the University of Iowa with a JD in 2009, focusing on international human rights and gender/sexuality issues in the law. Hir current work focuses on queer identity, policy, and marginalized identities under the queer umbrella. As a genderqueer person, zie comments frequently on non-binary identity, transgender and genderqueer issues, and media coverage of these populations. Zie also speaks at colleges, universities, and events on transgender and queer issues and conducts trainings on related topics.

Posted on March 28, 2009, in sex and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 1 Comment.

  1. I agree – that was really annoying

    As far as I can tell, Nicki is pretty much obsessed with sex. If she thinks that it’s unhealthy for her to be celibate, that’s fine, but some people just don’t have that need. (Myself included!)

    I feel like Cherry Bomb often buys into quite the number of cultural norms in the name of ‘spirituality’, ‘health’, etc. And the loud ones (Nicki) always drown out the quiet ones (Gloria).

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